A new body: Slowly in motion!

There is a strange period after childbirth when you know movement is good for you, but moving itself feels like a task. Your body is tired, your brain is occupied, and somehow even five minutes of exercise can feel like an administrative burden. For most parts of postpartum, the real exercise is the push towards it!

And then, occasionally, you move.


You stretch your back and something cracks. You rotate your shoulders and suddenly realise how stiff you had become. You do a few squats and your legs remember what they are supposed to do. None of it looks particularly dramatic. But it feels like getting a tiny piece of yourself back.

A few things I have discovered along the way:

1. Child's pose has a completely different feeling when you actually pay attention to your exhale.
Instead of just collapsing forward, try imagining the breath moving through your pelvis as you exhale and letting the pelvic floor soften and then gently recoil. Suddenly, child's pose feels less like a stretch and more like a reset.

2. Rotating two arms in opposite directions is far harder than it looks.
Your brain apparently has strong opinions about bilateral coordination. I can still manage two cycles, though. At this point, that counts as a win.

3. The postpartum body doesn't simply “go back” to what it was.
Pregnancy and breastfeeding involve major changes in energy balance, hormones, muscle function and body composition. The body is doing a lot of things at once, and some of those changes linger well beyond childbirth. Sometimes the most useful thing is to stop treating that unfamiliarity as a failure.

4. Calf stretches are criminally underrated.
A few minutes of stretching your calves can make your legs feel completely different the next morning. It is one of those tiny interventions you don't appreciate until you finally do it.

5. Breathing is harder than it sounds.
Try taking ten slow breaths while consciously expanding your ribs, and then another ten while paying attention to your belly. After childbirth, I realised how difficult it can be to concentrate on something as automatic as breathing. Somewhere between trying to control the breath and letting it happen, you accidentally get a beginner's meditation lesson.

6. Sometimes your body is simply asking for movement, not a workout.
Especially on the days when you're exhausted, restless or feeling physically “stuck”, a few hip openers, spinal rotations or gentle stretches can change how your body feels without ever becoming a full workout. The point is sometimes just to move from stuck to less stuck.

7. Leg raises make you discover muscles you forgot existed.
Do a few leg raises and foot circles lying down and you can suddenly feel your abdomen, hips and pelvis working together to stabilise you. It is a useful reminder that “core” is not just about abs.

8. Deadlifts are a hip hinge. Squats involve both the hips and the knees.
That distinction sounds boring until you start lifting. Once you visualise what each movement is actually asking your body to do, your form becomes much easier to find—and much harder to accidentally lose.

9. Thoracic twists can produce the most satisfying little back crack.
Especially after you have spent hours feeding a baby, sitting at a desk or simply existing in one stiff position. The crack isn't your spine magically snapping back into place; it is generally related to pressure changes within the joints or movement of surrounding tissues. But that feeling of finally moving your upper back again? Very real.

10. Squats and lunges are boring until you realise how much they can do.
They are such basic movements that they almost feel too simple to count. But you can change the load, tempo, depth or variation and suddenly the same movement becomes an entirely different challenge. Sometimes the most useful exercises are the ones you already know.

Maybe that is what I am learning about movement postpartum.

It does not always have to be a workout. It does not have to burn. It does not have to compensate for what I ate, reverse pregnancy or produce a smaller body.

Sometimes movement is simply the moment when a body that has spent months changing, carrying, feeding, recovering and being needed by someone else gets to be moved again.

And on some days, that feels like enough.

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